Summer: [Tom is listening to headphones in an elevator with Summer. She notices the music] I love the Smiths. 
Tom: Sorry? 
Summer: I said I love the Smiths. 
Summer: [they stare at each other for a moment] You... You have good taste in music. 
Tom: [repeating after her] You... like the Smiths? 
Summer: [singing] To die by your side, such a heavenly way to die. 
[speaking] 
Summer: I love em. 
Tom: [elevator stops, Summer leaves while Tom remains dumbfounded] Holy shit.

 

Tom: What happened? Why - why didn't they work out? 
Summer: What always happens. Life. 

 

Tom: I love how she makes me feel, like anything's possible, or like life is worth it. 

 

Tom: It's official. I'm in love with Summer. 
[while Montage of Summer plays] 
Tom: I love her smile. I love her hair. I love her knees. I love how she licks her lips before she talks. I love her heart-shaped birthmark on her neck. I love it when she sleeps.  

 

     

      

Directed by
Derek Cianfrance

This movie i can't tell your about my feeling when i watch it.it so sad i cry and cry and in the end of movie in my head thinking why !  why !  “why did we do this?”  ”Why didn’t we not do the other stuff we wanted to do in life, before doing this?” .

Storyline

Dean Pereira and Cindy Heller Pereira are a young, working class married couple - Dean currently working as a painter, and Cindy working as a nurse in a medical clinic - with a young daughter named Frankie. Despite their relatively tender ages, they are both ravaged by the life they've eked out together and by the experiences they've had leading into their marriage. Dean, a high school drop out, comes from a broken home, where he never really had a mother figure. He never saw himself getting married or having a family despite falling in love at first sight with Cindy. He doesn't have any professional ambition beyond his current work - which he enjoys since he feels he can knock off a beer at 8 o'clock in the morning without it affecting his work - although Cindy believes he has so much more potential in life. Cindy also comes from a dysfunctional family, with her own mother and father not setting an example of a harmonious married or family life. One of her previous serious relationships was with Bobby Ontario, that relationship which has a profound affect on many aspects of her marriage to Dean. Dean and Cindy head off on an overnight getaway together without Frankie, the getaway which may provide a clearer picture if their marriage can survive its many issues.

“You always hurt the one you love
The one you shouldn’t hurt at all
You always take the sweetest rose
And crush it ‘till the petals fall
You always break the kindest heart
With a hasty word you can’t recall, so
If I broke your heart last night
It’s because I love you most of all…”

—

Ryan Goslin singing in Blue Valentine  Original song in movie. Memorable quotes “Pack your bags, baby, we’re going to the future.” — Dean, Blue Valentine “I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry, like, one girl, ‘cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.” -Dean. Blue Valentine

   When Henry DeTamble meets Clare Abshire in a Chicago library they both understand that he is a time traveller, but she she knows much more than this about him as he has not yet been to the times and places where they have met before. He falls in love with her, as she has already with him, but his continuing unavoidable absences time travelling - and then returning with increasing knowledge of their future - makes things ever more difficult for Clare.

    In Chicago, the special collections librarian Henry DeTamble has a genetic anomaly that allows him to travel in time; however, he is not able to control the moment or the destiny of his voyages. When the stranger Clare Abshire meets him in the library, she invites him to have dinner with her in his favorite restaurant Beau Thai where she confesses that she has been in love with him since she was six years old. Henry leans that he had visited her many times in the real state of her parents and he falls in love with her. Sooner they get married, but the life of Clare becomes troubled with the successive unexpected travels of her beloved husband.

“Don’t you think it’s better to be extremely happy for a short while, even if you lose it, than to be just okay for your whole life?”

—	Audrey Niffenegger, The Time Traveler’s Wife

—	The Time Traveler’s Wife  - Audrey Niffenneger